Have you ever come across a male peacock? You may recall its screech or call to its mate, and, if lucky, you may have seen its display of iridescent feathers fanned out? Have you seen the simple petal structure of plumeria flowers or smelled their fragrance wafting on the breeze? If you live in or have visited tropical climates, have you witnessed tall palm trees swaying in the gentle trade winds?
If so, the words peacock, plumeria, and palm trees may conjure up certain memories, images, sounds, and smells.
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| When do you experience beauty? (Photo: Peacock in full display - Larry Gardepie) |
Words not only convey meaning or help us describe abstract thoughts, but they also become building blocks that create bridges -- or walls -- in our relationships. That is why our vocabulary, what we discuss, and our ability to dialogue with others is so important.
With or without knowing it, we may use a word or two which brings forth images, memories, and emotions we weren't expecting.
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| Do our words open up relationships? (Photo: Fragrant Hawaiian Plumeria - Larry Gardepie) |
What then do we do when the unexpected happens? Do we ask questions and seek to understand? Should we wait and let things settle? Or maybe step back and reflect on what happened and the words used?
If we choose, our task -- and invitation -- is to notice the beauty and fragrance of relationships... and to sway when the breezes test us.
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| Can you sway when friendships are tested? (Photo: Swaying Palm Trees - Larry Gardepie) |
The skills -- and timing -- of when to ask questions, seek understanding, wait and let things settle, and reflect can be practiced every day.
What words conjure up memories, images, sounds, and smells for you?
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