Saturday, November 12, 2022

What Must We Leave Behind?

Immigration -- legal and illegal -- is a political "hot potato" that has been discussed -- or rather, argued about -- for most of my adult life.  I don't know if there are any easy solutions, especially as more people are suffering from drought conditions, natural disasters and violence.  Our reasoning and language seems to center on definitions of We-They, feeling safe or not, and the Unknown brought into our planned lives.

Religion and Politics -- those two topics we are told not to discuss! -- intersect as people grapple with what it means to be human and protecting national identity.

What can you not leave behind?
(Photo:  What We Bring, Ellis Island
- Larry Gardepie)

These thoughts were going through my mind as I walked among the exhibits on Ellis Island recently.  One room displayed clothes, jewelry, family heirlooms and religious objects brought from the lives being left behind.  It was interesting to learn that most steerage class immigrants could only bring one bag or suitcase with them to the New World... and yet these were the items they could not leave behind.

Another room showcased paper money and coins that were exchanged for the legal tender of this new country they wanted to call Home.

Objects attached to family and faith.  Objects of necessity and the future.

What are you willing to exchange?
(Photo: What We Leave Behind, Ellis Island
- Larry Gardepie)

Some walls had photographs of family members left behind or the family that became U.S. citizens.  As immigration moved from a Topic Argued to Stories Enlivened ("lived in") of hopes and dreams or rejection and loss, I noticed that our shared human story of Becoming Better and Wanting Good for our families took root in my hardened heart.  My views began to soften.

I wonder if part of our struggles with immigration are the questions that are required of us:

  • How do we define who is "foreign" and who "belongs"?
  • What will become of me and my family when Others are introduced?
  • Will I have to change in order to accept?

Who are you becoming?
(Photo: This is Who We Become, Ellis Island - Larry Gardepie)


Dialogue requires us to risk... letting go.... leaving behind... and dreaming together of a New World... of understanding... acceptance... and beginnings.
 
Yes, we can hold onto what is important to us -- but risk requires us to talk about and display those objects we consider important.  As people become aware of what is of value to Self and Other, dialogue then invites us to listen and consider another way of thinking.  Finally, landing in this new world of listening, considering, and thinking anew asks us to exchange what is necessary to move forward in this new life together.
 
Walking through Ellis Island allowed me to understand the connection we have with individual family stories and the common nature of humanity:  the universal Need to Belong.
 
May this week open us to conversations that migrate us from older understandings and beliefs to a new world of hopes and dreams to explore.... together.
 

Larry Gardepie

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4 comments:

  1. Thank you Larry for lifting up a topic to a level beyond the cacophony of solely political and often times, self-serving words that fail to lead to new perspectives and possible consensus.

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    1. Thank you for your comments! My family immigrated from France through Canada and down into the US Midwest at a much different time than the Ellis Island years. Being several generations removed from those times I can only imagine what it could have been like from the stories and scenes we see now or that are shared by others. Listening and believing in their stories is what drives me... the personal aspects of hopes and dreams, wanting better for my family, belonging... I too think that we need to move away from the political arguments... and try to understand through the human heart.

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  2. It's complicated. A lot to consider, a soul to search, justice to enforce, may God helps us.

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    1. So true! Complicated issues... complex human relationships... self-reflection and reaching out to others to understand... and God's help is needed to see a much wider perspective of this world and life!

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