Have you ever looked at a picture or a landscape, thought you appreciated its beauty or understood its place in creation, and then did a double-take and realized you had missed something important? That has happened to me several times this past month!
The first was a National Geographic picture on Facebook that popped up in my feed. I saw several horses in a desert location. Interesting photo of Connection and Isolation.
Then I read the caption under the photo, and was I surprised at my misguided interpretation!
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| What do you see? ~ ~ Click on image to enlarge ~ ~ (Photo credit: Picture of the Year, National Geographic) |
A similar experience happened when our ship entered the waterways leading into Paamiut, Greenland. The ship's foghorn had been sounding every 20 seconds the evening before our first Greenland port: thick fog had clung to us throughout the Labrador Sea.
In the morning light, we had our first sighting of Greenland, shrouded in mist. I took a digital photo with my phone, looked at the photo, and then looked back at the view before me. The photo looked like 3 different images had been superimposed or overlaid, but this was real! There were a series of mountain fjords filled with fog adding dimension and depth.
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| Do you allow time to look back and wonder? (Photo: Waterway leading to Paamiut, Greenland - Larry Gardepie, 2025) |
Lately I have been questioning what I see: it's okay to See What We See -- "it is what it is." But do we ever wonder if there is something more, something missing or not seen at first glance?
Dialogue is similar: We hear what we hear... but, do we:
- Wonder if we understood the other person correctly?
- Revisit the conversation to explore differing viewpoints?
- Go Deeper in our curiosity and questioning?
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| What pool do you play in? ~ ~ Click on image to enlarge ~ ~ (Photo credit: Pearls Before Swine, Stephan Pastis - Dec 10, 2023) |
I believe that life is filled with opportunities: second glances; re-do's on conversations; considering another perspective. I also believe that we are challenged today by distractions, negativity, and toxic environments.
As Pig concluded in Pearls Before Swine, "Life is all about the pool you play in."
One question for us to consider as we see what we see: "What Pool of Life am I playing in?" And maybe a follow-up question: "Why did I choose that pool?"
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| Larry Gardepie
Dialogue San Diego Consulting
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