I wonder what attracts us to what we like? Or, when we are in a difficult situation, what keeps us locked in or set apart? It seems that humans make hundreds, if not thousands, of judgments and decisions each day! How do we know what we consider to be 'right' for us or what we like or don't like? I have found in my life that some choices change depending on the situation. Do they for you?
Who would you want to sit with? |
When do you choose to sit apart? |
- When trying to unravel my thoughts;
- When needing to be still and listen to an Inner Voice;
- When in a difficult situation where I cannot move or don't know how to respond; or,
- When in pain and unable to share that moment.
How long have your chairs sat empty and unused? |
This musing captured me the rest of the day. There were times when I would become silent... and I knew it was time to explain my thoughts. There were times when I missed what another person said... and I knew it was time to listen more deeply. There were times when I didn't understand another person... and I knew it was time to ask clarifying questions.
I found that when I moved away from my inward tendencies and attempted to explain my reasoning or ask the other person for clarification, we were connected. Dialogue began. It was as if our inner thoughts, judgments, and decisions -- when shared -- moved us from separation to relationship. Hope happened!
When do you see the Sacred in the Other? |
Our invitation this week is to consider:
- Who do you want to sit with?
- Is there something you want to say? To hear?
- How do you enter dialogue: expecting you know or anticipating surprise?
May this week open us to hope... as we make a decision to listen and as we seek the Sacred Within!
Larry Gardepie Dialogue San Diego Consulting |
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