The list goes on and on about how I process the words and experiences of past hours and days. It is almost like looking through a gateway in the wall: remembering and cherishing a view beyond the wall while being constrained by the Wall of Time surrounding me!
Looking Beyond the Old City Walls (Southampton, England) |
In a way, the Dialogue skills become a Gateway for reflection and curiosity. Holding past and present gently, I am able to explore the wall of memories by walking through the present gateway, connecting past with present. This transition moves us from from Either-Or thinking (Past-or-Present) to one that allows Both-And being (Past-and-Present). That is, when dialogue is practiced, we begin to see Both-at-Once, moving from fragmentation and limitations towards integration and wholeness.
The Ability to See Old and New at the Same Time (Southampton, England) |
Thus, our core humanity allows similarities and differences to coexist, to rest side by side.
Lighting the Core of Who We Are... Together! (Southampton, England) |
Questions to consider this week:
- When do I notice that I am focusing only on my needs or wants?
- How might I balance these needs with the needs of others?
- What core values are important to me?
May this week provide experiences which transform us from seeing through the portals of the past to opportunities where we see Both -- You and Me -- and Us!
Larry Gardepie Dialogue San Diego Consulting |
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