Language has always fascinated me: humanity's desire to label objects and thoughts -- often abstract ideas -- to communicate with others. I have often wondered: Who came up with that word? Why is that object named...? How is it possible that we understand one another?
I am also intrigued by people who study the origin and history of words (etymologists). Being able to listen to a word and know what words have the same roots (like author and authority or expert and experience), and which languages influenced the development of these words... all in the interest of communicating, connecting, and conveying ideas as our knowledge expanded.
Sometimes I am aware of being on autopilot, though, when speaking to some people: rather than approaching each encounter as a sacred event of Connection and Creation, I often experience only hot air (emptiness, exaggeration, or pretentiousness).
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| What effort do you make in the words you choose? |
The ups and downs of our communication are further complicated by the foreign languages that we speak: our natural or native tongue from our family upbringing might be misunderstood when traveling beyond our familial boundaries.
A friend of mine served two years in Turkey with the Peace Corps. He has many stories of teaching English and learning Turkish. As he was sharing with me simple words like Yes (Evet) and No (Hayir), I noticed my mind recalling a hot air balloon trip I took many years ago. The pilot would ask if we wanted to go higher. For me, it would have been easy to respond to this English question with a Yes or No. I wondered what the pilot would have done if a Turkish passenger had said Hayir (which, in English, sounds like higher... but in Turkish means no)?!
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| Can you rise above disagreements and misunderstandings? |
As we experience the ups and downs of language, I wonder if we take the time to:
- Clarify what we have heard;
- Share our understanding of what was said or what we interpreted; and
- Be willing to adjust our knee-jerk reactions or thought-out responses to the new information shared?
After all, you might be having a good time and wanting to go to the next level whereas my experience might be the opposite: I might need the situation to gently slow down, get to ground level, before I can move on. Being on autopilot risks our ability to navigate the currents that direct where our relationships go.
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| How might we navigate the currents of different languages and ideas? |
The wonder of hot air ballooning is the realization of how quiet it is to float above the noise and chaos on the ground. When the fire burner is not heating the air, silence and tranquility settles in. But, as the balloon floats over populated areas, the balloon focuses and amplifies the sounds below: it is easy to hear a person talking hundreds of feet below!
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| Larry Gardepie (click on link for website) |
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