Saturday, June 4, 2022

Life is Precious: Dialogue is Precious

On a recent tour through the Southwest, we encountered rugged beauty: how geological upheaval created plateaus; how wind and water carved out mesas, buttes, hoodoos, and canyons.  We also saw how humanity has reshaped its environment with structures like dams, lakes, and canals -- storing and diverting water for recreation and survival.

Returning home, I have been reflecting on beauty, upheaval, diversion, and survival.

What do you dam up or store internally?
(Photo:  Lake Powell, Larry Gardepie, May 2022)

These post-pandemic musings have tended to focus on:

  • How upheaval happens so quickly;
  • How we divert attention away from Topics Unpleasant; and,
  • How survival is Wired Within.

When faced with momentous events, we sometimes encounter paradoxes:  for instance, how small we seem in the grandeur of the universe and yet how precious life is.  The Both-And of All speaks to us of our Worth and Value.

Where do you feel small and unseen?
(Photo:  Lake Powell, Larry Gardepie, May 2022)


As unexpected events unfold, I recall a phrase a friend often says:  "Life happens."  For me, these two words have helped me to maintain a balance between reaction and response:  that is, keeping a focus on the preciousness of life, relationships and understanding invites me to pause, take a breath, and decide on a better course of action.

Rather than upheaval, diversion, and self-survival, I can retain focus on the beauty of that moment and seek what is best for all concerned.

What is precious in your life?
(Photo credit:  Cronin Family, May 2021)


Dialogue is also precious:  it allows Moments Unclear to become clarified -- by noticing the upheaval and the wearing down; by asking questions to understand; and by allowing defended energy to be redirected, self- or other-violent thoughts to be channeled to non-violence, and systemic justice to be restored.
 
As you continue to explore and re-normalize your life, may you discover what is precious in your life!
 

Larry Gardepie

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