Do you enjoy puzzles and word games? I do! The process of thinking through a number of possible solutions and narrowing down to one answer is stimulating. So many possibilities... but why can ONLY ONE be Right?!
There are so many ways to to be challenged these days: online games and jigsaw puzzle apps; books of word searches, crosswords, Sudoku, and acrostic brainteasers; TV shows that pit contestants against one another... and the list goes on, especially when we look at our day-to-day lives!
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| Do you see a world of possibilities? (Photo credit: Chirag Upreti - NASA) |
Once, when traveling in southeast England, a friend and I attempted to walk through a life-size hedge maze. The problem? We almost missed our train because we couldn't find the maze's exit! Dead ends prevented us from finding the Right Way out! Yelling over the hedge walls didn't help... fellow mazers were just as lost as we were!
Reflecting on other dead ends in my life, I haven't been as frantic. Similar to working out a solution in a puzzle or word game, I notice the obstacle or dead end, step back, retrace my steps, and consider another way out of the situation. (It helps not to be rushed for time!)
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| How do dead ends help you? (Photo credit: Couple Creates 7-foot-high Maze in Their Backyard with Only One Way Out - New York Post) |
It sometimes helps to be able to "phone a friend," "ask the audience" or have some of the options removed. In fact, like mazes and puzzles, dead ends and multiple answers sometimes slow us down and invite us to consider another way to move forward.
Is this what we do with our assumptions and conclusions about other people? When they exhibit behavior we weren't expecting or when our conclusions don't match the outcome, do we step back and reconsider what we were thinking?
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| What life signs keep you safe? (Photo credit: California DMV Road Side Test Video) |
The gift of puzzles and games is when we are a-mazed at the end result:
- What we learned about ourselves;
- How the dead ends helped us; and,
- Were we willing to ask for help?
I hope that you enjoy the challenges of this next week... treating each dead end as a way to step back, seek help, and learn.
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| Larry Gardepie (click on link for website) |
