Our new understanding or awareness extends this invitation. Through curiosity, questions, and dialogue we are invited into compassion for self and other - the ability to "hold lightly" what is said, observed, understood, and felt. Ever so slowly we move from our cramped cells into an expanded view of the Reality Surrounding by listening to how others experienced and understood the same events.
Nautilus shell with its expanding chambers |
This Cause-Effect method is very efficient and effective. But oftentimes, we live life on autopilot. That is, we get used to turning on the light switch when we want light, never looking at other possibilities. We assume that we can use this same SIngle-Loop Learning method for every situation. What happens, though, when we come across a more complex situation that isn't so readily solved?
Single-Loop Learning = Cause-Effect Thinking |
Slowing down and noticing that our automated re-actions (repeated actions) aren't addressing the situation allows us the possibility that other approaches could be taken. Reviewing our inner constructs (decisions, meaning, assumptions, and filters) opens new doors. This is Double-Loop Learning: the ability to learn from what is working and what is not working; and when not working, to review the inner constructs and find new opportunities.
In essence, checking out our assumptions and filters while being in dialogue with others introduces a "choice point" - the ability to respond instead of react, the potential to look at other options and solutions.
Double-Loop Learning = Creating Choice Points |
In like manner, the Ladder and Double-Loop Learning produces within us a realization, a moment, to engage one with another in the process of being co-creators.
Creating delicately: drawing forth whom we are to become |
- Where am I noticing that I have boxed in myself and others?
- When am I on autopilot - anticipating and reacting to the people around me? What new approaches can I take?
- Will I see and notice the love and compassion that surrounds me - and that I can offer others, especially where we may differ?
The invitation this week it to take a risk, become vulnerable, and hold one another with compassion.
Let us turn off the autopilot and experience the Clay-of-Creation!
Larry Gardepie |
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