Close your eyes and hold onto that memory. Replay that moment. What do you recall? What did the person say or do? How did it feel inside? What was your response? And, why do you remember this experience?
Hamilton, Bermuda: Signs of Familiarity and Friendship |
Weymouth, England: Signs of Recognition and Common History |
Luxembourg American Cemetery: Signs of Sacrifice |
Oostende, Belgium: Signs of Remembrance |
Why am I focused on these symbols of sincere appreciation, familial connections, respectful dignity, and remembrance? Having studied and practiced Dialogue skills these past several years, I am struggling with the incivility that seems to permeate our public discourse. What is happening to us?
Royal Palace, Amsterdam: Signs of Justice |
One definition I found: "Political Correctness is the avoidance of forms of expression or action that are perceived to exclude, marginalize, or insult groups of people who are socially disadvantaged or discriminated against." One person I talked to mentioned Sacred Worth and Value. Another, mentioned kindness, compassion, and forgiveness.
In recalling the memories of when I was treated with respect or the symbols I encountered on vacation, I wondered if maybe it is time to transform how we imagine PC. Maybe we are really talking about those moments when there is a Personal Connection:
- When there is a moment where we get beyond the filters that separate us;
- When there is a moment where we see similarity in our human condition; and
- When there is a moment where we climb down our Ladders of Inferences to understand the basic elements that bring us together.
(Click on link to be reminded of the Ladder of Inference.)
Peace.
Larry Gardepie |
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