How do you remember them: what was it that they said or did which has made a lasting impression? Notice your feelings as you recall these people. What emotions surface?
How strong is their impact? (Meteor Crater, Winslow, Arizona) |
The skill to practice this week begins with noticing, and the focal point is my impact on the situation. That is, slowing down and realizing that we too leave an imprint on what is happening!
For instance:
- Observe the various roles you play throughout the day and the interactions you have with other people.
Does your role influence how people respond to you? Is your communication style producing a different effect than expected? - Check out your observations and assumptions by asking questions or sharing what you are noticing with the other person.
What are you noticing about your impact? Are the results intentional or accidental? How are people perceiving what you say or do?
Observe the floating feathers (Amanda and Christopher Ewell) |
Does your impact bring light into the world? |
What beauty when we impact one another! |
The month of May is packed with impactful invitations: to celebrate our mothers on Mother's Day and El Día de las Madres; our teachers, faculty, and students at the end of the academic year; our graduates with their accomplishments and dreams at Commencement ceremonies; our service men, women and veterans on Memorial Day; and each other as we celebrate how we gently "collide" into one another. I hope to notice more fully your impact on me, and me on you!
Blessings to our mothers this Mother's Day!
Larry Gardepie |
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